Ultimate Bachelorette Party
A few weeks ago, I attended a perfect Bachelorette party. It was epic. It was the ultimate best Bachelorette Party of all times! I am not just saying that it was the ideal Bachelorette party because I am the Maid of Honor. Which, of course, means I played a significant part in the planning committee. But, I am saying it was perfect because it was non stop fun. We had a weekend full of laughter, turn-ups, and everlast memories!
I won’t continue to throw in your face, how good of a time I had. Instead, I want to give you tips on how you too can Throw The Ultimate Bachelorette Party for your next bride to be!
Good Luck! And don’t F it up! -Rue Paul
Tip #1: Have a Plan
You’ve been handpicked to be a member of the wedding party. Why because you know the bride. Keep in mind who she is? What type of Bachelorette party she has dreamed of? Of course, brides are excited to embrace their new journey, this is still one of the last times to have a full on a girls trip! I say make it rememberable.
It is time to really think about your bride whats, and ensure you give her an epic bachelorette party. The only way to honestly do this is to plan. Yes, whip out your Pinterest boards, Amazon shopping carts, group, and more!
Here are my top 3 things to have on your list of todos.
- Pick a date
- Pick a budget
- Pick a location.
*Lastly it is wise to get the ball rolling early and be mindful of holiday weekends. Your budget will go much further on nonholiday days.
Tip #2: There is no I in team
You need a team! This means, get to know the girls! Yes, It is vital that you know the other ladies of the bridal party and starts growing your sisterhood now for the bride. The better you all work together as a team, the more successful your bachelorette party will be. 9 times out of 10, if you love the bride, you all have common interests anyways.
Here is why you need a team. Because it’s hard work!! So, I say have fun trying to do it all alone. If it weren’t for the girls in my group, our party would not have been as epic as it was!
Now that you have your team and you all are now well acquainted. Don’t be afraid to delegate. Listen, people always recommend networking because there are people out there that can help you. Yes, there is someone out there that can teach you something and you should embrace it with open arms! Your team is only as strong as your weakest link. Uplift each other and work together! Here are some things your team can divide and conquer on.
- Guest Relations. We had 20 girls from all over the U.S. Having someone to keep us all connected was life-changing.
- Decoration crew
- Entertainment committee
*Use your phone wisely! I say that to say, get the apps you need to stay organized and connected. I.e., WhatsApp, uber, etc.
Tip#4: Have Fun
If you know me, you know I don’t have time to sweat the small potatoes. Life is short and we should not waste it stressing over the small things. Throwing a bacheulette party should be fun. If is is not, it is time to Stop and restart. You are now saving lives, you are throwing a party. Dont lose all the joy trying to put together an event that should be fun! I promise the more fun you fave panning the event the better it will be!
Until Next time!
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